Leaving your university to study abroad means having to say goodbye to your friends and family and moving to totally new school in a new country. It is a time where you may be scared to be alone and that can be very intimidating but I want to assure that everything will be okay. Whether you are introverted or very extroverted, there are many ways you can meet new people and make friends. Here are some tips:
Key notes
- Join Pre-Arrival Group Chats
- Don’t Overlook Your Roommate
- Attend Orientation Events
- Join Clubs or Activities When you can
Join Pre-Arrival Group Chats
Before you even set off on your journey, there are usually two types of group chats created for exchange or international students:
Formal Group Chats: These are often managed by teachers or the school’s point of contact to communicate important updates and answer questions.
Student-Only Group Chats: These are informal and just for students, allowing you to connect with other students before arriving.
In these chats, students often post messages to find roommates, ask for recommendations, or see if anyone wants to grab food. These early interactions are an excellent opportunity to meet others!
Early Group Dynamics: At the start, many people respond actively in the chat, and meetups often involve large groups as everyone is excited to meet new people. Over time, smaller friend groups naturally form, and the larger group activity may taper off.
Tip: Don’t hesitate to initiate plans. Chances are, someone else is just as eager to meet people as you are! If you’re one of the first to arrive, send a message like, “Hey, has anyone else made it yet? Want to grab some food?” You’ll likely get a positive response.
Don’t Overlook Your Roommate
If you are staying in a dorm the chances are your roommate is another exchange/international student and that is one of the easiest way to start making connections.
Having another international student is great because they are in the same boat as you; Introduce yourself and they could be the perfect person to join you in going to events or just exploring the area together.
You may also have a roommate who is a local and is also a very great opportunity. They know the country, the school, and the language. What better way to learn your new home than someone who has been there a while? Most people will be excited to meet someone from a different country and be more than happy to show you around.
*Now it is important to note that not everyone may be very open and warm towards their new roommate. You not click and get a roommate where you guys keep things very business and just say hello and goodbye. That’s okay too, don’t take it personally.
Attend Orientation
Orientation is one of the best opportunities to meet people early on. Most universities organize icebreaker activities, tours, or group lunches to help students connect. Take full advantage of these events—they’re designed to bring people together, and everyone is usually eager to socialize at this stage. While there don’t be scared to ask others where they are from and for their Instagram or something so you guys can connect.
Join Clubs or Activities
Clubs and extracurricular activities are fantastic ways to meet people who share your interests. Usually at the start of the semester
While there may occasionally be a language barrier, don’t let that discourage you! Most clubs are welcoming and excited to share their hobby with new members.
Break the Ice with Locals
Meeting local students or residents is a fantastic way to gain insight into your host country’s culture and lifestyle. As an exchange student, your status can be a great conversation starter. Most locals are happy to share recommendations or tips, so asking simple questions like, “Do you know any good cafes or places to visit around here?” is an excellent way to start.
If you’re intimidated by the idea of approaching someone, here are two easy and approachable ways to break the ice:
1. Strike Up a Conversation After Class
Classrooms provide a natural setting to meet people, especially during those transitional moments before or after class. Here’s a simple and effective approach:
- As people are packing up or checking their phones, turn to someone nearby and say:
“Hey, I’m an exchange student and was wondering if you had any recommendations for [cafes, restaurants, or things to do] around here?” - Most of the time, they’ll be happy to answer and may even offer to show you around or join you for a meal. Just like that, you’ve created a new connection!
2. Ask Employees at Local Spots
Employees at cafes, markets, or small shops are often familiar with the area and happy to help.
- When you’re ordering or checking out, ask something like:
“Do you have any recommendations for cool places to visit nearby?” - It’s a casual way to gather information and engage in conversation without much pressure.